Tuesday, April 21, 2009
I Dreamed A Dream...
Friday, April 17, 2009
Culture Shock In Makkah...
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Journey to the Holy Land
We left KLIA at about 3.30 p.m. and arrived at Jeddah at around 8 p.m. After collecting our luggage, we took off on a five-hour-plus journey by bus towards Madinah.
En route, we stopped at an R&R in the middle of nowhere - we dubbed this the P&P (Padang Pasir) stop - and had our first taste of things to come. The place offered only Middle Eastern food such as rice and bread with grilled chicken or lamb...at exhorbitant prices. A plate of rice with a half small-sized chicken cost RM17 and a glass of sweet tea cost RM2 (the current Saudi Riyal ex-rate is on par with the Ringgit). The helping of rice is very generous; enough for three adults but with a half small-sized chicken, it was only adequate for two adults.
We arrived Madinah Al-Munawarrah (literally: Glittering Madinah) at 2 a.m. the next day and all of us were exhausted from the 8-hour flight and 5-hour bus ride. Our hotel was located about 300 meters from the Prophet's Mosque (Masjid al-Nabawi).
Masjid al-Nabawi at dawn The first time I stepped into Masjid al-Nabawi was an awesome experience - the marble architecture is magnificent and it is large enough to hold a congregation of more than a half million people. Praying at the mosque for the first time was also an emotional experience; it gives one a sense of closeness to the Creator and I felt at peace with myself. There was nothing else to think about except to prostrate towards Ka'bah and ask Allah for his forgiveness and blessings.

The magnificent architecture of Masjid al-Nabawi
While in Madinah, we visited several historical sites:
Jabal Uhud (Uhud Mountain)
The historic Battle of Uhud was fought between the non-believing Quraysh tribe of Makkah and the Muslims of Madinah in the vicinity of Jabal Uhud. This war was revenge by the Qurayshis for their earlier defeat at the Battle of Bad'r.
At Uhud Mountain, fifty bowmen were stationed as a line of defence with specific instructions to hold their line whether they won or lost, until further instructions. A fierce battle ensued and the Muslims fought valiantly although they were outnumbered. As they were winning the battle, the sight of the fleeing Qurayshi army was too much for most of the faithful.
Before them lay the booty of the Qurayshi army and ignoring the insturctions of their commanders, they rushed to claim their share. Even the bowmen left their assigned positions to join in the search for the spoils of war.
The Qurayshi army took advantage of this indiscipline and attacked the high ground, and quickly broke through what was left of the Muslim defensive formation.
Jabal Uhud is in the background
Al-Qiblatain Mosque (Mosque with Two Qiblahs)
We did not visit Al-Qiblatain Mosque in Madinah; however it was pointed out to us. It is one of the oldest mosques in Islamic history. It is the mosque in which Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was commanded to face the Ka`bah in his Prayers instead of Al-Masjid Al-Aqsa in Jerusalem. Al-Qiblatain Mosque is thus uniquely structured with two mihrabs (Arabic for: niche indicating the direction of Makkah), one facing Makkah and the other facing Jerusalem.
Rawdah
The heart of the Masjid Al-Nabawi houses a very special but small area named ar-Rawdah an-Nabawiyah, which extends from Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) tomb to his pulpit. Close companions of the Prophet, Abu Bakr as-Siddiq and Umar ibn al-Khattab, who fought the Battle of Uhud with him, were buried in an adjacent area.
Pilgrims attempt to visit and pray in ar-Rawdah, for there is a tradition that supplications and prayers uttered here are never rejected. Entrance into ar-Rawdah is not always possible (especially during the Hajj season), as the tiny area can accommodate only a few hundred people.
For men, the Ihram is an unhemmed white wrap-around robe held by a belt. It is to signify that all men are equal before Allah and it is unhemmed similar to the white cloth Muslims are wrapped in for their burial. For the women, Ihram is typically a long, white robe although they are free to choose other colors as well. We stopped for Miqat by performing prayers at Bir Ali Mosque, about 9 k.m. from the city of Madinnah.

From Bir Ali onwards to Makkah, the entire busload recited the Talbiyah, which is a prayer invoked by pilgrims as a conviction that they intend to perform the Hajj only for the glory of Allah. Talbiyah is repeatedly invoked during theHajj/'Umrah, upon putting on the Ihram, so the pilgrims can purify and rid themselves of worldly concerns. This ritual was spiritually uplifting as we continued our way towards Makkah.
The text of the talbiyah is:
Labbaika Allahumma Labbaik. Labbaik La Shareeka Laka Labbaik. Innal-Hamdah, Wan-Nematah, Laka wal Mulk, La Shareeka Laka.
Translation:
"Here I am at Thy service O Lord, here I am. Here I am at Thy service and Thou hast no partners. Thine alone is All Praise and All Bounty, and Thine alone is The Sovereignty. Thou hast no partners."
We arrived at Makkah Al-Mukarrama (literally: Honoured Makkah) at about 9 p.m. After checking into our hotel, we freshened up and had dinner before performing the 'Umrah at Masjid Al-Haram (the Grand Mosque).
Masjid Al-Haram by Night
Five Star hotels have sprouted at the doorsteps of Masjid Al-Haram
Tawaf
The Umrah ritual starts with a prayer and then we proceeded to do the Tawaf (طواف) around the Ka'bah. The Tawaf is one of the rituals of the Hajj and 'Umrah. Pilgrims are to circumambulate the Ka'bah (the holiest building in Makkah) seven times, in an anti-clockwise direction.
The circling is believed to demonstrate the unity of the believers in the worship of the One God, as they move in harmony together around their central shrine, while supplicating to God "Labbaik Allahumma Labbaik". During this time, Muslims also pray for forgiveness and it is believed that supplications and prayers uttered here are never rejected by Allah.
We completed the Tawaf at about 1 a.m. and inspite of the late hour, the crowd was massive. There must have been about 1 million people when we were there, inspite of this being the low season for pilgrims to visit Makkah.
As a consquence, we were pushed and shoved by larger sized Arabs and others as pilgrims try to get as close as possible to the Hajar-ul-Aswad (Black Stone) in the eastern corner of the Ka'bah. When pilgrims circle the Ka'bah during Tawaf, many of them try, if possible, to stop and kiss the Black Stone, emulating the kiss that it received from Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). If they cannot reach it, they are to point to it on each of their seven circuits around the Ka'bah.
After Tawaf with the Ka'bah in the background
Sa'ee (or Sa'i)
Sa'i (ritual walk) is done seven times between the hills of Al-Safa and Al-Marwah, which are now housed in a long gallery within the Masjid Al-Haram.
In Islamic tradition, Prophet Ibrahim was commanded by Allah to leave his wife Siti Hajar and their infant son alone in the desert, with only basic provisions, to test their faith. The desert place was between the Al-Safa and the Al-Marwah hills. When their provisions were exhausted, Siti Hajar went in search of help or water.
To make her search easier and faster, she went alone, leaving the infant Ismail on the ground. She first climbed the nearest hill, Al-Safa, to look over the surrounding area. When she saw nothing, she then went to the another hill, Al-Marwah, to look around.
While Siti Hajar was on either hillside, she was able to see Ismail and knew he was safe. However, when she was in the valley between the hills she was unable to see her son. Thus Siti Hajar would run while in the valley between the hills and walk at a normal pace while on the hillsides.
Siti Hajar travelled back and forth between the hills seven times in the scorching heat before she returned to Ismail. When she arrived, she found that a spring had sprouted forth from the crying baby kicking at the sand with his feet. This spring is now known as the Zam Zam Well and there is an endless supply of Zam Zam water for pilgrims to drink at the mosque.
The distance between Safa and Marwah is about 450 meters so that seven trips amount to roughly 3.15 km. Pilgrims are expected to walk although the infirmed may use wheelchairs which can be rented with someone pushing for 40 Saudi Riyals for the entire ritual. Men are required to slowly sprint between the two hills, to emulate Siti Hajar's run when searching for water.
Pilgrims performing the Sa'ee
We completed the 'Umrah ritual by 3.30 a.m. and stayed on in the mosque to await the Subuh (dawn) prayers which start at about 5 a.m. After prayers, we returned to the hotel for breakfast and crashed for the rest of the morning (by that time, we had been awake for more than 24 hours!) before mid-day prayers at 12.30 p.m.
The following day, we decided to perform another 'Umrah (there are no limits on the number of 'Umrahs one can perform, the more the better). This time, we went to the town of Ta'naim (one of the boundries of the sacred territory of Makkah) for the Miqat. Ta'naim is about a 10-minutes bus ride outside of Makkah and the fare is 2 SR. For the third 'Umrah, we went to the historic town of Ja'aranah where Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) had his Miqat.
The rest of our stay was spent praying at Masjid Al-Haram with some sightseeing in between.
Jabal Al-Rahma (Mountain of Mercy)
Jabal Al-Rahma is a hill in the Plains of Arafat outside Makkah from which Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) gave his last sermon 14 centuries ago. Pilgrims visit the Plains of Arafat before proceeding to Mudzalifah for the stoning of the Devil.
This is considered the highlight of the Hajj. Pilgrims must spend the afternoon within a defined area on the plain of Arafat until after sunset. No specific rituals or prayers are required during the stay at Arafat, although many pilgrims spend time praying, and thinking about the course of their lives. If a pilgrim does not spend the afternoon on Arafat, then their pilgrimage is considered invalid.
Colorfully-decorated camels available for rides at the foot of Jabal Al-Rahma
We spent the next six days in Makkah praying at Masjid Al-Haram and shopping for souvenirs in between. These shopping trips, mainly by the ladies, became known as Tawaf Kedai.
The 'Umrah trip, although exhausting, is an eye-opening experience for me. It is a test of patience (being jostled in the crowd), stamina (making 10 daily trips to the mosque and back to the hotel - a distance of about 700 meters each way), goodwill (at the Zam Zam drinking stations, although it was my turn, I had to hand out drinks to hands reaching out behind me) and discipline (waking up at 3 a.m. every day to make sure we get a place at the mosque for Subuh prayers). Before leaving Makkah, we did a final Tawaf.
I now have a better appreciation of the rituals of the Hajj/'Umrah and their significance and I look forward to performing the Hajj in the near future...insya'allah.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Friday, March 20, 2009
Life's Journey...
While I was consoling a bereaved ex-colleague whose husband had passed on, my mobile phone beeped with the message that another friend from way back when also passed on in Kelantan.Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Rusty Rollers
We went to the bowling alley early so as to practice because we did not want to be an embarassment since all of us had not bowled for years. Our scores were not too bad so we were really looking forward to the competition.
There were 100 competitors, men and women, and the women were given a handicap of 20 pinfalls as we had to compete with the men. Each competitor had to bowl 3 games.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
My Favorite Things

Botox and nose drops and needles for knitting,
Well, Ms. Andrews....the truth sure hurts....ouch!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Recession...




Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Hell Hath No Fury...
Friday, February 13, 2009
On Divorce...


It seems that technology is touching every aspect of our lives - even divorces! Neil Brady, a 39-year-old Briton ended his six-year marriage by making an announcement on Facebook. His wife, Emma Brady, 35, only found out about her husband’s intentions when he changed his Facebook status to read, “Neil Brady has ended his marriage to Emma Brady”. Emma only found out after a friend in Denmark called her up to see how she was coping. Thursday, February 12, 2009
Financial Smooth Operators!
Kazutsugi Nami - Japan's Bernie MadoffMonday, February 9, 2009
Movie Review - Changeling

Sunday, February 8, 2009
Movie Review - Slumdog Millionaire
















