Sunday, December 28, 2014

The Year that Was

Annus horibilis (Latin: horrible year) are two words that aptly describe 2014 which is now coming to a close.

For the country, the twin tragedies involving Malaysia Airlines' Flights MH 370 and MH 17, four months apart, must be the most significant for the country in decades.  MH 370 disappeared on March 8, 2014 with 239 passengers/crew on board.  A search for the missing plane is still ongoing in the remote waters of the Indian Ocean where the plane is assumed to have gone down.  This assumption is based on complex number crunching from technical data that are available from satellite systems and the aircraft manufacturer.

On July 17, 2014, Flight MH 17, with 298 people on board, was shot down over war-torn Ukraine and to this day, it is still not known who the culprits are and whether this was a case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time or something more sinister.  All 298 people, of various nationalities, including Malaysians, perished.

In the sports arena, Datuk Lee Chong Wei, world's No. 1 badminton player, was embroiled in a doping scandal and he has been suspended.  To this day, his fate is still unknown as he is waiting for BWF (Badminton World Federation) to convene a hearing.  In the meantime, he has been replaced as World's No. 1 by China's Chen Long.

On the economic front, the Malaysian Ringgit's significant slide against the US Dollar has resulted in, among other things, more expensive imports.  Malaysians are paying higher costs for food as most of our food is imported.

While lower oil prices resulted in the people paying less at the pump, the Government is bound to lose revenue as PETRONAS' earnings slide.

Mother Nature has also added to Malaysia's woes.  The East Coast of Peninsular Malaysia is now inundated by serious flooding and more than 100,000 people have been displaced.  It is the monsoon season and floods are the norm during the monsoon season but the flooding this year is the most serious in more than 30 years.  The Prime Minister came under fire when he was pictured golfing with President Obama in Hawaii, where the latter was spending his Christmas holidays.  When the flood became more serious the PM cut short his holidays and returned to Malaysia to personally direct relief efforts.  In responding to critics, the PM defended his "golf diplomacy" saying it was difficult to turn down the invitation and plans had been made long before the floods began.  He was also in touch daily with the DPM who was entrusted with the responsibility of overseeing flood response operations.  Whether or not this lapse in judgement would have an impact on his political career remains to be seen.  It is akin to George Bush's perceived slow response to Hurricane Katrina which left a blot on his already tarnished legacy.

However, it is not all doom and gloom.  Squash queen, Datuk Nicole David, made us proud to be Malaysians when she won the world title in 8 straight years, a hard-to-beat feat indeed!

Malaysia has returned to the United Nations Security Council (UNSC) after a 15-year absence with an absolute victory.  Of the 192 votes cast at the UN General Assembly, 187 was in support of Malaysia's unopposed candidacy to represent the Asia Pacific region.

On the home front, mum's health took a turn for the worse.  After a short bout of illness, she is no longer mobile and is wheelchair-bound.  She cannot perform the basics of daily living and has to be cared for.  I am grateful that my loyal maid (who has been with me for 20 years now) is still around to help as I would otherwise be helpless without her.

That about sums up the year that was....here's wishing everyone a happy new year and let us pray for peace and continued prosperity for our beloved Malaysia.

Postscript:
To add to the doom and gloom, it has just be reported that Air Asia Flight QZ8501, operated by Air Asia Indonesia, is now missing and SAR operations are ongoing.  The plane was bound for Singapore from Surabaya and contact was lost while it was flying between Java and Kalimantan in reportedly bad weather.  There are reportedly more than 160 people on board, with the majority being Indonesians.  Malaysia had already lost 2 planes this year - one missing and one downed by rocket fire....we cannot afford a third one.  Ya Allah, kami memohon perlindunganMu dari segala bencana.  Berikanlah kekuatan kepada rakyat dan pemimpin kami untuk menghadapi bencana yang datang bertalu-talu ini.

  

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

August 13, 1989














Allahyarham Hj Muhandes bin Hj Mohamed
(July 6, 1942 - August 13, 1989)



August 13, 1989
Forever etched in my mind
The day my world fell apart
And left me with a shattered heart

I went through the motions
Shocked, numbed and broken
How would I carry on
Now that you're gone

A young child who turned four
Without the ayah he adored
What would his future be
It would be all up to me

Ya Allah, please make me strong
For the road ahead would be long
Give me the wisdom and foresight
To know what's wrong and right

Twenty five years have passed by
I went through lows and highs
With sheer will and determination
To fulfill my obligations

A perfect mother I may not have been
I did the best within my means
To fulfill the promise that I made
Though deep inside I was afraid

Ya Allah, I ask of you
For health and strength to continue
This journey that I must make
And to learn from my mistakes

Al-fatihah...semoga roh mu ditempatkan bersama orang yang soleh dan Jannah untuk balasan amalan mu

Saturday, March 22, 2014

The Pain of Not Knowing


As the search for the missing flight MH370 enters its 14th day, more and more countries are joining in the search.  While the world focuses on the press conferences by Malaysian officials and visuals of the rescue mission, those directly affected by the disappearance of the plane - the families of the missing passengers/crew - can only wait and pray.

As someone who had undergone a personal tragedy which claimed the life of a loved one, I cannot begin to imagine the pain that the families are going through.  They go through each day in limbo....so many questions cannot be answered....every conjecture and speculation on the how, why and where would bring more pain.  Their lives are on hold and they are clutching to hopes, however flimsy, that their loved ones are still alive somewhere out there.

Some tips on how to help the families cope with the uncertainty are in order.  NEVER try to comfort them by saying "I know how you feel"....because you DON'T KNOW.  Also, even though as Muslims we believe in Allah's will and we accept what has been planned for us by the Almighty (redha), this may not be the right time to tell them to be patient and accept what is fated.  They have been patient for the last 2 weeks and some people are less resilient than others in the face of tragedy.  It is more helpful to be there to listen to them, hold their hands and make them feel that someone cares.

It is also a good idea to help where you can - for example to help send/fetch young children to/from school, volunteer to babysit when needed or cook meals if the person happens to be a neighbor.  It would also be a good idea to visit the person regularly (but not intrude on their privacy) just to find out how the person is managing and to let them know that you are there to help.

In the meantime, prayers do help and we can show our empathy by praying for their loved ones.  We should also be considerate of their feelings and please do not spread rumors, misinformation and conspiracy theories as these will not benefit anyone; least of all the families.

I pray that there will be closure sooner rather than later.